|  Mark Edward  |

Sex.  So, we think about it 18.6* times per day.

It’s part of being male.  Actually, in the loosely conducted survey where I obtained the number 18.6, it was also noted that men in the same survey had thoughts of food and sleep — about the same number of times.

That proves to my first born brain that it all goes together.  We eat.  Then we want sex.  Then we get sleepy.

All joking aside, sexuality is huge part of our lives.

It’s one of the most important aspects of enjoying life to most guys.  It’s an area we want to get “right”.

And with some effort, practice, and, encouragement, and The Word, we CAN get sex right.

Here’s a few good quotes on sexuality.  If you have a great quote on sexuality, email us:  idrathertalk@gmail.com.

(Disclaimer:  In discussions of sexuality, I’d Rather Talk™ writes to enhance and strengthen the sexual knowledge of married men in a positive way.  

Many young men are also in the preparation season for marriage.

While curiosity is a part of the preparation journey, this site encourages single men to read, learn, prepare, and enhance their marital and sexual knowledge – and –  to keep it in their pants on dates – until the honeymoon.)

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Can you cook, clean up the kitchen, bathe the kids, help with laundry – or take her out for dinner when funds permit?  Give her a break.

Reduce her stress.  You’ll see the benefits.

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Just because she’s not feeling sexy is not a reflection on our manly manhood.

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The above questions is one of the first questions I ask men who tell me, “We hardly ever have sex anymore.”

While there might be a legitimate reason to masturbate under certain circumstances, if you are draining your crane every time you turn around, you’re not gonna be pursuing her like you could be.

Of course there are more factors to this discussion of “not enough sex” and masturbation in marriage – too much for a quotes page.  We’ll try to hit this topic (more specifically for married men) in 2018.

Until that post is released, you can read more about Masturbation HERE

Getting married soon or newly wed?  Or just need some help in your marriage bed?

Read more about your Wedding Night and Honeymoon HERE

 

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This quote is from our post:  “How I’ve Stay Happy. And Married.”

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• 87% of college males use porn.
• 66% of internet-using 18 to 34-year-old men look at online pornography at least once a month.
• 57% of divorces involved one party having an obsessive interest in porn.
• 53% of a Promise Keeper’s men surveyed admitted to using porn in the last week.

There’s a link for Quotes on Porn at the bottom of this page.

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I don’t claim to be the king in this area, but I surely do try.

When she’s happy.  I’m happy.  If she’s pleased.  I’m pleased.

That being said, I am also grateful for the occasions when she says, “This one’s for you!”

What guy on the planet doesn’t welcome a Quickie now and then.  Just go for it.

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What does Loving, Honoring, and Serving have to do with sexuality?

Everything.

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What is keeping you and your spouse from enjoying sex?

Why does she say, “not tonight?”

Why do you say, “not tonight?”

Oh right.  I don’t say that either.

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Ah, so popular in sex saturated America.

This is probably not your favorite verse, bahaha.

Coming back together after a short time of refraining is – well – amazing.

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* Men think about sex 18.6 times per day based on a study by  Dr. Terri D. Fisher, Professor of Psychology at The Ohio State University at Mansfield.

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Check out our  Quotes on Married Life

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Check out Quotes on Porn HERE.

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